Earlier this week, I came across a tweet on Twitter.
A man asked his mother "How will I ever find the right woman?" She replied "Forget finding the right woman, focus on being the right man."
I thought it was brilliant.
On the next day, it came to my mind again. And I suddenly realised that the same applies in a gay context and to me too.
All this while I have been looking for the right man for me but so far I get nothing.
This tweet has really made me realise how silly I was. I should focus on making myself better instead of looking for someone better.
Seriously, why hadn't I thought of this before?
So I decided to spend less time on Grindr and more time on my personal development.