Homophobic Housemates

With the plan to move back to KL, I need to look for a room to rent.

When I lived in KL last time, my housemates were not exactly homophobic. But their occasional disrespectful jokes about gay and homosexuality made me feel a little uncomfortable, even though I was still in the closet that time.

And there was once they suspected me for being gay and hinted and tested me in various ways. Being fully in the closet that time, I wasn't ready to be out nor have this secret of mine be disclosed and so I felt uneasy and a little scared to be exposed.

Thanks to my moving back to my hometown, I get a lot of time to rethink on everything about myself, including my sexuality. And I slowly come out of closet to become who I am now. I think being in a new environment gave me the courage to slowly come out (not yet to my family though). If I were to continue staying in KL that time, I doubt I will start coming out as quickly as I am now.

In a way, I'm viewing my move to KL this time another stage of my coming out. I want to live more openly gay, so having non-homophobic housemates are important to me. Even though I'm more ready to be out to my friends now, I'd still prefer to have housemates who are sensitive about homosexuality, for at least they don't crack inappropriate jokes about gay.

And of course I don't want housemates with obnoxious living habits, too.

So I'm trying to look for a room via Grindr. I'm not sure if this is a good idea, but at least I can be quite sure that my housemates won't be homophobic.

Anyone with homophobic housemates wants to move?

26 comments:

  1. wow, that is harsh life..which part of kl?haha

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Haha life's never easy. Actually, I should say PJ. It's not even the real KL.

      Delete
    2. yeah, it supposed to be that way..if not, it will be boring =P

      hahaha..PJ is KL enough for me..cant find any studio room over there??

      Delete
    3. That didn't come to my mind.. But it should be more pricey right? It's good to have the whole place for myself but I think I need people around me. If not, I will still be an otaku..

      Delete
    4. yeah, it is a bit pricey..and yeah, u will long for company after a while...

      if im not mistaken, tuls parent house is around that place and he said his parent gonna clear up a store room and rent it to ppl..u can ask him la can rent there or not..hahaha

      Delete
    5. its only for girls.. haha.. mum doesnt want guys.. anyway, soul232 thanks for promoting my house i feel like slapping you! lolllll.. hahahaha.. the last thing i want is interblogger conflict ish benci!! hahahaha... anyway good luck in finding a place la..

      Delete
    6. Hahaha I remember the rooms are all rented out already? And I don't think I want to rent a blogger's place too. I try to keep my real life identity and my blogger's identity apart. =)

      Delete
    7. hahaha...true enough..later if tuls mum ask how u know tuls, what to answer "errr.....long lost brothers?" hahahah =P

      Delete
    8. Woah if that's the answer, then the trouble will be turned to tuls' dad. -_-"

      Delete
  2. got both pros and cons la.. pros is whatever you say la.. cons is.. hehe.. things might just run out of order since everything is conviniently there.. you know what i mean.. but unless its clearly no physical attractions for each other then fine but if thats not the case.. kinda difficult also! :) haha.. the lonely nights will bring the worst out of you.. im not saying based on experience but maybe the experience i collected along the way! muacks! :)

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hahaha true also. In that case, I need to state it clear before moving in. But I think I watch myself well enough, so it shouldn't be a problem for me. =)

      Delete
    2. you sure? hahahaha..ok ok ...

      Delete
    3. Haha I did lose control once, but I'll try my best to not to repeat it again. =)

      Delete
    4. lol sendiri bongkar rahsia! hahahaha... *knock knock*.. *open door* ... *saw him not wearing anything* *horniness at its max* .... disaster..... lol

      Delete
    5. Hahaha I've written it before, so there's nothing to hide also lah

      Delete
  3. Even my ants here knows i am gay...but not my family..kakakak...Welcome back to KL.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Woah you sure are very out! I bet the cockroaches too! Yeah, not yet there but thanks!

      Delete
  4. You can actually type PLU for the search term on iBilik.com and try to look from there.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Oh that's some good info there! Thanks!

      Delete
  5. Hmm don't think looking for a housemate on Grindr is the best idea... U might attract a bunch of sex craving creeps! hahaha oops that sounds like me actually LOL :P

    Living with someone who's gay friendly is one thing... but to live with another gay guy... something is bound to happen.. either a lot of drama, bitching or... u will end up sleeping together.... :P

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Yeah, true. But I think that's pretty much the same for everyone. Straight guys and girls living together can end up with dramas, bitching and sleeping together, too. I think it's a matter of luck to have the housemates who are drama queens or can't keep their zips closed.

      Delete
  6. i like to kencing everywhere in the bathroom too .....

    ReplyDelete
  7. Good luck on finding your next crib =)

    ReplyDelete
  8. Did you know that you can shorten your long links with AdFly and make cash for every visit to your short urls.

    ReplyDelete